Comments on untanglingknots.com: Who am I?

Who you are is out there waiting for you to find h...

2005-09-27T06:25:00.000-04:00

Who you are is out there waiting for you to find her. She is a work in progress. One thing I do know is that she is a lovely human with so much to offer. Go her her, Karla.
Hugs :)

"perhaps somewhere out there lies the answer to ou...

2005-09-27T00:21:00.000-04:00

"perhaps somewhere out there lies the answer to our questions" and "whoever i end up being when i get there..." these lines are infused with such hope...

Good luck Karla you have a lot to look forward to....

2005-09-26T13:46:00.000-04:00

Good luck Karla you have a lot to look forward to.

Come to Philadelphia!

Karla, I have not read through your whole blog, bu...

2005-09-24T22:01:00.000-04:00

Karla, I have not read through your whole blog, but I see that you have "lost" a baby recently. My husband and I had a baby early, at 20 weeks, many years ago. He did not survive. I had waited so long to get pregnant (I was 30) and it all seemed so unfair. I won't go into all the details at the moment. I do remember a lot of what I felt. One thing that surprised me was how long it took before the pain subsided - at least one whole year. My crying actually scared me, I thought I was losing my mind. I had never felt such emotional pain. I had very supportive friends and I talked a lot to them about my feelings and thoughts. This is what helped me. So be patient and allow youself to work through. It sounds like you are doing that already.
It's funny how I have still wanted to stay in touch with that pain. While I was in the hospital the day after, they brought me a wash basin to clean up in and along with it a bar of Neutrogena soap. Still, I will occasionaly buy this soap (it has a very nice scent) just to sort of "reincarnate" those feelings. I guess staying in touch with these feelings is like staying in touch with him.
Also, I also noticed that many people are very sympathetic to the mother, but sometimes forget the father. Don't let them get away with that, he needs that support just as much.
Love, Debbbie V.
BTW, we had a little girl 4 years later. She was also born early, at 28 weeks, she weighed 3 pounds. She made it after 10 weeks in ICU. She is 20 years old now, a sophmore in college.

Hi Karla, Wishing you the best of luck in your run...

2005-09-23T17:30:00.000-04:00

Hi Karla, Wishing you the best of luck in your run this week end. I know you two will do great and that AVA will be watching down on you.
HEre's wishing you and your mom a very Happy Birthday and a Happy Be-lated Anniversary to you and Mark.

You and I both share the samethings. I also got married in September and my Birthday is September 26.

HUGS and GOOD LUCK this week end. Ciao.

It's good to hear you sounding so much better!! W...

2005-09-23T12:54:00.000-04:00

It's good to hear you sounding so much better!! We (Robyn and I) have been worried about you lately, as neither of us has heard from you. I'm glad it's because you're too busy having fun :-) I'm sending you lots of internet hugs and love, and patiently awaiting some pictures of your fun!

I’m happy to see that you are allowing yourself to...

2005-09-23T12:48:00.000-04:00

I’m happy to see that you are allowing yourself to find out who you are rather than trying to create yourself into some sort of mold or ill-fitting lifestyle because you feel like it’s what you “should” be.
Too many times I have allowed others to decide who I was.

Karla, best of luck to you on your run this weeken...

2005-09-23T12:10:00.000-04:00

Karla, best of luck to you on your run this weekend, I am sure you will do wonderfully.

As for your journey, I can only say that I am here to support you on your way.

who are you? To me you are one of the most beautif...

2005-09-23T11:42:00.000-04:00

who are you? To me you are one of the most beautifull and carring people i know,and when i say beautifull i mean from the inside and out.

Love you

Mom {{{ hugs }}}